Reality television star Josephina Otabor, widely known as Phyna, has spoken publicly about her strained relationship with Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo, explaining why the actress unfollowed her on social media and no longer supports her as she once did. Phyna made the disclosure while addressing questions about the noticeable distance between herself and the popular actress.
According to Phyna, the change in their relationship is linked to her association with controversial social media activist Martins Vincent Otse, popularly known as VeryDarkMan or VDM. She explained that her connection to the activist did not sit well with Iyabo Ojo, leading the actress to gradually step back from supporting her publicly.
Phyna revealed that Iyabo Ojo had previously been very supportive of her following her rise to fame. She said the actress often encouraged her and showed public backing during key moments in her career, which made the sudden shift in attitude more noticeable to fans and followers.
The former Big Brother Naija winner explained that she later realized the withdrawal was not personal in the traditional sense, but rather a reaction to the controversy surrounding VeryDarkMan. She stated that Iyabo Ojo is known to be firm about the people she associates with and the causes she supports, and that her decision to distance herself was based on principle.
Phyna clarified that she did not confront Iyabo Ojo directly about the unfollowing or the reduced interaction. Instead, she chose to reflect on the situation and accept it for what it was. She noted that in the entertainment industry, relationships can change quickly due to differing beliefs, alliances, or public perceptions.
She further explained that her link with VeryDarkMan has attracted mixed reactions from the public, with some people supporting her decision to stand by him and others criticizing her for it. According to Phyna, she believes in standing by people she feels are being misunderstood, even if it comes at a personal cost.
The reality star stressed that she does not harbor any resentment toward Iyabo Ojo. She acknowledged the actress’s right to choose who she supports and emphasized that everyone is entitled to their own values and boundaries. Phyna added that she still respects Iyabo Ojo and appreciates the support she received in the past.
Phyna also addressed speculation that there may have been a personal disagreement or argument between them. She dismissed such claims, stating clearly that there was no direct conflict, fight, or exchange of harsh words between her and the actress.
She explained that unfollowing someone on social media does not always mean hatred or deep conflict, but can sometimes reflect a decision to disengage from situations one does not agree with. Phyna said she believes Iyabo Ojo simply chose peace and distance rather than public confrontation.
The development has generated conversations across social media, with fans of both personalities sharing mixed opinions. Some social media users sympathized with Phyna, arguing that friendships should not be dictated by external associations. Others supported Iyabo Ojo’s decision, stating that public figures must be careful about the people they align with due to their influence.
Iyabo Ojo has not publicly responded to Phyna’s comments or offered her own explanation regarding the unfollowing. The actress, who is known for speaking openly on social issues, has remained silent on the matter as discussions continue online.
Phyna concluded by stating that she has learned to accept changes in relationships as part of personal growth and life in the public eye. She emphasized that she is focused on her career and personal happiness, rather than dwelling on lost connections.
The situation highlights the complexities of relationships within Nigeria’s entertainment industry, where public associations and personal beliefs can sometimes create distance between individuals who once shared mutual support.
